Honestly everybody lighten up for all good things come in time and you know what... it is all good.My grandfather explained to me many years ago that to truly know the good things in life you must understand and feel the pain of the bad.How can one truly appreciate the wonderful life we have if we have nothing to compare it to?
 I honestly chuckle when I read about how hard it is to find someone online and how people are so deceptive here,while this is true I find that online is better...how many first real dates have you been on heard all the lies believed it fell into "love" only to find out it was built on lies?At least here online you can talk get to know them ,more than you could ever dream of on a date,and watch them hang around to know you more or run when you want to dig deeper.
As in life it is all the same be it in a actual life meeting or internet meeting...know who you are what you want expect nothing less there is someone for everyone and you know what not everyone is for you NOR are you the person everyone else desires,but there is someone for everybody.
Does a thousand hello's fill your soul with happiness or does that one in a thousand melt your heart......take care my friends me personally I will accept that one...kinda like it when my toes tingle and I can not stop smiling...best wishes for all