<p>Once I wrote a letter of love to someone, who I thought that needs
help. The mail is intended and meant only for this person. And somehow I
don't even have a single clue if the note help my so-called "friend".
Now I'm sharing my thoughts to all of you who are in the state of love,
broken hearts and moving on. </p><p> </p><p><strong>Not all
marriages/relationships are made in heaven. There are those that were
made out of an urgency to have and not to give. There are those that
were made out of lust and not love. There are those that thrive on
desires to suit selfish needs and not those of others. You cannot live
the rest of your life waiting for your partner who doesn't love you
anymore and you might have already lost long ago. There is nothing wrong
in being good to him/her but you also have to be good to yourself.
There is nothing wrong in loving unselfishly but you also have to learn
to love yourself. You may have lost someone precious to you but that
doesn't mean you cannot be happy again. As it has been said, failed
marriages/relationships may storm for days to nights on end but it will
not storm forever. Our lives may seem in endless chaos but there will
always be a way to surpass it. Pain may linger longer than we wish but
God will always help us find a way to endure it. Remember, Love isn't
love until you give away. But love will only have life when it is shared
by two people who believe in its meaning, by people who share one goal,
one commitment, and by people who are selflessly loyal to each other.</strong></p><p> </p><p><strong>When
we fail in our relationships/marriages, we ask ourselves what went
wrong. There are times when nothing was wrong. Sometimes love just
naturally fades away and this happens to people who are simply not meant
for each other. I know it is difficult to comprehend why
relationships/marriages suddenly take unexpected turns. But, it always
happens. People we treasure are taken away from us for a reason .
Sometimes we have to stop asking why and just accept our fate. If there
is certainty in that end, then we should stop being bitter and just be
thankful that for once, we have loved and shared our life.</strong></p><p> </p><p><strong>Getting
attracted to someone and getting a chance to know him more is very
exciting. Getting into a relationship with that person and sharing
mutual feelings of affection is even more rewarding. When we feel that
we love someone so much, we prepare ourselves in making that
relationship complete by walking down the aisle with that person in
marriage. This is where we make ourselves believe that we will just live
happily ever after. We can never be certain of our relationships
because not all of them are built to last our lifetime. Loving someone
with all our hearts isn't all that it takes to make a relationship last.
Sometimes, even if we prove our worth in many ways, seen and unseen, we
still cannot guarantee of permanence and loyalty in our relationships.</strong></p><p> </p><p><strong>As
it has always been said, we should embrace love when it comes knocking
on our doors and willingly let go of it when it says goodbye. We
shouldn't regret that we've lost it.Even with all the pain that comes
with loving, we should never let our hearts wallow in anger. Be thankful
when love comes into our lives that for once it has dwelled in our
hearts and made us happy. But when it leaves us, even if it's against
our will, we should only be sorry for a while. There should be no room
for our hatred to grow in our hearts.</strong></p><p> </p><p><strong>Soon
we will realize that in the midst of despair, pain, and sorrow, someone
comes in our life and gives us strength to believe in life again. The
love they give us gives us a blind faith that helps us believe in
ourselves again, that we can make our dreams come true.</strong></p><p> </p><p><strong>Love
isn’t when you can’t sleep… it’s when you want to keep your eyes
open…Love isn’t when you keep holding on… it’s when you learn to let
go…Love isn’t when you fall for someone… it’s when you catch that person
when he/she falls…</strong></p>