I just wrote a woman I will never contact a note I thought to share. I hope you like it.

Re: Response - Is it worth it?

I would say no and yes. It all depends on the woman and our definition of the "too pretty" label. After all, I don't want to stereotype. Under my personal definition of the "too pretty" woman, the answer would definately be no. But your right. It would take time to find out and the older we get the less time we have. This brings one back to the ideas of fate and honesty with one's self as a guiding principle sporting the notion we will always be where we are meant to be as long as we're honest with ourselves and the choices we make. As for all the "too pretty" ones out there; they will have to fend for themselves I suppose. In the long-term, it is all a question of faith. :) 

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Re: Venting, Theories, and Other Thoughts

You haven't logged in in over 122 days so I think I'm safe in that you probably won't read this. Plus, you are way too young for me. I write to you because for whatever reason; for the first time, I see you and wonder what it would be like having children with you and sharing a lifetime of joy. This is strange because I have always been too selfish to ever want kids. On the other hand, maybe I'm just thinking about children as I get older; or maybe I'm in love at first sight. More likely, I have just found a new woman role model to respect and look up to. Who knows. 

While looking at your picture I question why I never tried to have more than one relationship with a woman, such as you, that I would consider too pretty. I have always told myself "too pretty" girls make terrible lovers in the long run. But then again, I probably think that way because the one "too pretty" girl, love of my life, looked a little like you. Maybe I'm still bitter or regretful. After all, I did care more about school at the time. I hope not; if so, I would be no better than the "too pretty" girls my own age who will never find a partner because they refuse to change. For me, I hope I evolve a little more every day.

As I look at your angelic face I wonder how pretty girls ever get beyond all the b******t most guys tell them in the hopes of "getting lucky". Maybe it is the objectification of woman I object to but I suppose I have to also consider you all want to be objectified on some level. Probably in the same way I might objectify a woman in the con######t of a committed loving relationship. Hmmm. Interesting. None the less, the whole "friends with benefits", "hookup" mentality never really appealed to me. Yet here I am, fantasizing what it would be like having a family with you in the con######t of an email you will never read. Safe I suppose. It sure beats my normal M.O. of being provocative to keep my distance. Although being provocative is more advantageous than writing this.

Maybe being "too pretty" explains allot. Maybe it explains why often the prettiest girls end up with the not so handsome men; leaving some "too pretty" older woman to be bitter and uncompromising toward a new relationship dooming it from the start. Maybe some "too pretty" young woman  figured out plain looking average men are better partners in all ways; better providers in the long run. Jeez. now I'm talking myself into being plain instead of being the educated, good looking, and established man I've been working so hard to become in preparation for a life with a woman such as you.

Hmm. More to think about. Maybe I will just leave it to fate. Maybe you do read this after all and make the effort to know me. Maybe we do meet someday, marry, and have a wonderful life together. Maybe not. Maybe we both end up where we are meant to be by being honest with ourselves and each other and taking the initiative regardless of "what people might think".

Do I want something? Yes. To have the opportunity for us to realize common interests and make the effort; regardless of the distance between us. Fate is a funny thing I guess. I wish you a good life. ;)