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cheating..

Fool me once, shame on you..
Fool me twice, shame on me...
But he has been fooling me again and again. I have had enough.
Just today I caught him with other woman on the other site. He didnt deny nor admit it. He didn't even reply to my text to him. And I know he chose her as he has no more face to show me. He was caught in the act of cheating on me. I got so devastated... Good and I'm glad that it's over. I didnt even cry, as I know he's not worth of even a single drop of my tears. We were chatting for 5 years and 6 months and would you believe in all of those 5 years all he gave me was a false hope and a let down. He would always make excuses when we talk about his coming over and he would promise me many times the many dates of his coming that turned out to be  only false hope. I was so loyal, faithful and devoted to him that i never talked to anyone even to same gender. I'm just regretting all those years that I wasted with him when I should have been with someone now. Lesson learned to always trust your instinct and make sure that your guy is really single and faithful to you.

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kd1635

  • Posted on 04/09/2010 09:09 pm
I am sorry for all the pain that you have expressed in the above story. However, at some point everyone dealing with a long distance relationship must evaluate the relationship and determine if it is really going to work. I don't know what that point is because I am new to this. But I am certain that if I was in that situation I would have long before the 5 year mark determined that this guy was just playing me for a fool. How much can you really blame the other person? Some people, men and women, will just bleed every ounce of whatever it is your are giving until you have nothing to give. This guy is scum, but you should have known.

bluetears

  • Posted on 03/02/2010 02:20 am
That is really a wonderful words of encouragement George. I'm moving on with my life now though I'm not yet ready to fall again. I want that if i would fall in love again, I want to give him a complete heart and not in pieces. Though I would like to find a guy that would love me at my worse and at my lowest point in life as I know he deserves me much at my best. I don't live in the past now, that is why an ex is called an ex because I've crossed him out of my life already. He wanted to give it a chance again but I couldn't give him another chance again and again. I have doubts already and cant trust him anymore. They say,... "Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it is better to leave them broken than to hurt yourself putting it back together" I deserve to be happy and I deserve a better guy. I know In God's perfect time He will give me what my heart desires for.

georgek

  • Posted on 03/01/2010 11:32 pm
yes it has happend to me...you cant live in the past..the minute somthing leaves my mouth it is the past..you cant take it back..weather i said somthing good or bad..the joy or damage has been done ..we all have free will.. i found out theirs allot more to.marrying someone from phillipines than i thought..google is amazing lol..true love never hurts..the lack of love kills and detroyes all..jesus never fails.. do you know i can get a loan for a house for 300,000 dollars.. airfare just to go rountrip to your country now is anywhere from 1,580 dollars to 2 grand..if i where to visit every girl that said i love you i could buy 10 houses..then if you live in Ameica like i do there is allot of paper work i never even knew about..and i still have to learn more..i just want my girl, to be happy....since ive asked my girl to marry me everyone has their own oppinion..from her family to mine..its killing me..there are good men out there look at dan and his wife love is possible there living proof...sometimes.we de ream and then reality kicks you in you butt..im sorry you meet a looser...some women lie too...i will pray for you..and i can be a friend...i have friends in phillipines .lol they want me to come to thir cafee..they said somthing bad about my girl and hurt her feelings .. i told my friend so called friend.. you have not right to jude my girl..and if all you can do is horras and hurt us both ..leave us alone..i hope she knows i love her..seems i have to prove myself everyday..becaus of what other people have done to her.. i am not.. her old BF.. i am just me.. i will pray for you and your family and .. happiness is a imside job..people cant make you happy you have to believe in youself..i know you r hurt..plz get yourself up brush youself off and try again YF George :)

bluetears

  • Posted on 02/19/2010 07:50 am
There are really guys like them in this world carliejane. It just happened that we are the unlucky ones to meet them. Mine was mean as I even went to the airport to meet him then I got a text that he wouldn't come over as he's afraid to fly. I forgave him and forgave another and no more ending forgiveness as he promised many times that he would come until I don't believe him anymore till I caught him again and that day I couldn't give another forgiveness anymore. I was numbed. I have had enough of all his lies and cheatiings. Anyway let us charge it to experience and be careful next time whom to trust and give our heart. Let us keep hope that true love will come our way and we will allso be happy like others. God bless us.

carliejane

  • Posted on 02/18/2010 01:33 pm
Hey girl. I actually can relate. I was also given false hopes. A guy once promised he will come over, giving dates as to when his arrival is. But a week before his supposedly arrival, i stopped receiving text from him. I wondered, so I tried calling, but there was no answer. 5 more days of wondering whether he will come or not. But I wasnt surprise, he never came.

One thing that I agree with you so much? Is that I already have the gut feeling something was odd with that guy. But I never followed my gut. I still believed and hope that there is really someone who is willing to sacrifice, and travel that far to see me, thinking that I am special. If only I did believe on what I felt, then maybe I could have not been disappointed. But anyways, i didn't ever cry. Nor was hurt. Because just like what Dan said, I was happy it happened earlier. At least I know what kind of man he is and that I never get the chance to be with him. No wonder I never ever felt we had a connection.

Anyways, your one hell of a pretty girl. You deserve soooo much better:) Cheers to you and smile.

bluetears

  • Posted on 02/17/2010 10:02 pm
Thanks Dan. I'm really happy now as I'm out of the cage. Would you believe he made a site only for the two of us and he wouldn't want me to talk to anyone even to fellow filipina friends. He even didn't want me to work and to have a life in my country. Thanks to the Lord as he saved me. God knows all my hardships and all my sacrifices on him. And now, I'm moving on and gettiing over him. It's easy to forget him as he"s a worthless guy. I'm ready to face the new chapter of my life. And with God's blessings and guidance now, I hope I will find the right guy for me.

dan

  • Posted on 02/17/2010 08:26 pm
It happens on all sites. Even though he wasted many of your years, thank goodness you did not marry and have to go through a divorce.