there r good men here!!! and ther r men who do not resepect women..they will tell you they love you and ask you to do things that dissrespect women..if you know in your heart this is wrong than dont do it..i found a girl..i love for who she is..in my eyes she is beutifull..i knew she was special from the day i saw her...i quess she thought she was in love before. and she was affaid of being rejected .i am a man and i make mistakes,,,dont let any man ..who tells you loves you,,make you do somthing you know is wrong ,,,because you think you will loose him.that is not a man,,but someone who is sick and you need to stay away from....them there are things that only a husband and a wife should share..you all deserve the best....never downgrade your selves and settle for 2cd best..waight for the best.and trust your heart...we r adults and we know what is wright and what is wrong.....i am the best..and my god knows this..you dont have to believe in my god...but believe in your self.i will pray for you all :) just a simple honest MAN..who loves jesus !!!
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hazelcortes60
dan
1. A guy contacts a lady. His message is boastful, sexual or something that the lady may entertain but doesn't find romantic or her cup of tea. However, she responds, there is discussion and the game begins. The guy continues boasting, talking about all he will give her and she is tempted to take him up on it. The game continues and one day she does.
2. Another guy contacts the same lady, this guy is romantic, humble and for reasons she only understands in her heart, he is the type of guy she has been waiting for. She never asks for a dime, not does the guy entertain any conversation that gives her the perception he wants to flower her with riches but is here for one thing -- love.
What can be strange about the above two scenarios is that one lady will report a guy as being scenario 1 while a different lady will report the same guy as being scenario 2. Ahhh, as they say, it takes two and probably reason why I can get several emails about the same person but by reading the emails you would never know it. It is only when I get several emails that report there is a problem that I have to consider that indeed there is a problem.
Of course there are times when it is obvious, blatant abuse or problem and no need for several people to complain for that account to be deleted. All it takes is for ONE member to point out this blatant abuse and the account will be deleted.
Saying the lady should of been more honest up front means you don't understand that hardly anyone is 100% honest when it comes to the game of love. One could also say, maybe the guy should of not been so boastful. Who knows, it doesn't matter as long as you are aware that not everyone plays the game the same. I do know one thing, the game of love is played by both genders...neither has a monopoly on who plays it harder or better.
Love is not an exact science and never will be.
I hate to say it, but I must of seen more than a thousand emails by now in my years of running a social website of one sort or another. I dare say, that generalities rarely, if ever apply. I will give most people the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise. As I write this, there are at least 30 emails waiting for me to read. I can count on a few being about another member whom for whatever reason they find boastful and arrogant. Qualities I don't always admire, but not qualities that will get a member's account canceled.
What will get their account canceled if they offend more than one lady with sexual comments (not just one, but when several ladies complain and provide proof) or if a member, male or female, is here to hustle. From the evidence presented, someone has to make a decision whom is correct. That would be me.
As I told another member who didn't like how I ran MY site -- it was free to join, it is just as free to leave. I have guidelines to follow. Not just my guidelines but also guidelines of my advertisers. I'll make decisions based on what I think is best for the site and for the vast majority of the members who enjoy it. Otherwise, there are plenty of other sites if ours isn't what you are looking for. OR -- start your own site and run it the way you see fit. I put the time and effort (hours and hours and hours) to make this site as it is and will continue making decisions on what I believe is best for the site and for the vast majority who seem to enjoy it.
The bottom line is, without the many gracious and helpful members participating at this site, there would be no community. It is these members and advertisers I listen to. When more than one member finds another member offensive or if a member provides evidence another member is blatantly abusing the site, I listen and take action if necessary. Believe me without members help, I could never find the time to keep the site running as is.
As always, if someone is abusing the site and you feel it needs to be brought to my attention, please provide the username and a copy of the message that shows abuse. But please be sure. Don't report someone for abuse because they rejected you or because you want to get back at someone. If that is the case, it will be your account deleted, not theirs.
Thank You
Dan
kd1635
You see, there are just as many women playing games here as there are men. I have met them. I have met so many who ask for money quickly so you can 'prove your love'. Then, there are the good ones that will chat for days until they know they have you and that is when they will ask for tuition money or milk money for the kids or rent money so they are not evicted or money to buy a cell phone because they want to talk to you so badly. There are also the professional girls who are offering the cam shows for money. And lastly, there are the ones that are not women at all who are posting some pop stars picture and trying to get men for whatever reason they may have.
It does go both ways girls. I am sorry for all the girls who have been disrespected online. But I am also sorry for all the good guys who are misrepresented by the men who are disrespecting the girls. All men are not like that.
One more thing too. Talking about sex is not always about sex. It may be about finding out if you are completely compatible with the one that interest you so much. Getting married is serious. Sex is a part of that. It is not the most important part of a relationship but it is very important. If the sex is bad because two people just enjoy different things then the relationship will suffer. If the wife just wants sex once each month and reads a magazine while doing it that is not the type of woman I want to marry. And I don't want to find out after I am married. So, it must be discussed at some point.
Best regards!!!!
cookiez
bluetears
gladystenorio70
Please also note that not all Filipinas are here just for fun. Lots of us are educated and would want to give ourselves a chance to know lots of good people.
georgek
georgek
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