 My wife and I have many things we enjoy and share together. However, there are things she likes to do that isn’t my cup of tea and vice versa. That doesn’t mean the relationship can’t work or even thrive when you each enjoy certain things the other person doesn’t. I actually believe it is necessary for a relationship. For example, my wife enjoys going to church while I would rather stay at home and do my thing. While she is in church, I enjoy the time alone doing what I need to do. In turn, when I’m watching a football game she gets a chick flick (her words) and enjoys watching it while I watch my Steelers get beat up. If that was all there was to our relationship we would be in trouble, but it isn’t. We enjoy taking walks together, going to movies, sharing moments that come and go in a flash, cuddling and just discussing life in general. We have a 13 year old boy that requires parenting team work so at times talking about Vincent’s future is our common ground. We wake up with a hug and a kiss and go to bed with a hug and a kiss. The time in-between morning hours and when we go to bed may or may not be planned, but we are always thinking of each other even when we are not together. So if you are looking for 100% compatibility, you may be missing out on the spice that makes a relationship work. Having differences that you can respect and being happy for the other person in what they enjoy doing, should put a smile on your face. Those differences can make you appreciate the things you do share even more precious than they may already be. Subscribe to Asian Wife Articles |
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