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I Feel 13 Again

I Feel 13 Again


 I get a lot of emails from members just bubbling with enthusiasm and excitement about meeting someone. Their thoughts seem to bounce in all directions and they have a hard time controlling their excitement. Like one member told me, “it’s like I’m 13 years old again and I can’t control or know what to do with my emotions.” The question is, do you need to control them?

I must admit, those who usually put another person on a pedestal seem to come crashing down the hardest if things go wrong. They go over board and scare off the person they want to be with. One member told me he would send his lady 22 emails a day and than he wondered why she decided to end the relationship. Either 22 emails a day was a bit much or the words in the email sounded so desperate he scared her off. I’m not sure which, but my conjecture is it was either one or the other or both.

So back to the question. Should one learn to contain their emotions or should they let it all out for the other person to see? There is probably no one answer that will fit all situations. I imagine some ladies or men, wouldn’t mind getting 22 emails a day if they felt the same. The operative word being “the same”. If another member says they like you and want to get to know you better and you respond with 22 emails of I love you, I want you, I need you, I want to marry you, etc, I can see why that person would stop wanting to get to know you  real fast. Even if you felt like you loved or wanted to marry that person, it probably would be wise to control your emotions since the other person has not indicated they were ready for such an outpouring of feelings. Instead of your words coming off as loving, they come off as being desperate.

I can’t help but to be happy when someone is on top of the world. However, I have over the years learn to reserve my thoughts until I know that it is two, not just one, that is on top of the world. Two people hand in hand that is gushing with love and acting as if they were 13 again can be precious. It makes the daily routine of running an Asian dating site worth the effort. However, I recommend that when you meet someone that makes you feel like 13 again, make sure she or he feels the same before you start screaming about love from the roof tops.

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Comments/Discussion

bbgrace

  • Posted on 04/16/2010 03:13 pm
helo how r u?

pilipina

  • Posted on 04/14/2010 06:09 pm
congatulation gorgek.....

sweety_m0m19

  • Posted on 02/27/2010 09:58 am
how about meand the other..wen we will find our soulmate hmmm.....

dan

  • Posted on 02/19/2010 08:53 pm
georgek, I wish you luck. At least you got invited to the dance while many are still searching for that dance partner for life. I wish you and your lady the best and may the music of love keep you dancing for a lifetime.

georgek

  • Posted on 02/19/2010 11:53 am
no i meet.. a Lady..who is awsome..i fell like im in high scholl..getting ready to ask a girl to dance..my hert is beating so fast my palms r sweatty..will she say yes will she say no??? WOW what a Rush..so iasked..and shoot up a prayer to the Big Man..Jesus..she said yes...if it doesant work out than it wasnt ment to be...yes it will hurt..and ill get up and ask another to Dance..but if it does than i have a Dance for the rest of my life!!!!