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There is no doubt that most of the guys who are looking for an Asian Wife, are hoping that they meet a lady who wants a traditional marriage. Defining traditional may vary from guy to guy, lady to lady, but I think most are referring to the traditional days of their childhood when raised by loving parents. Today's roles of husband and wife in Western countries, have changed as the gender roles in society have evolved. Nothing wrong with evolution, anymore than there is noting wrong with a husband and wife who prefer to define their roles in marriage.

What is wrong today, is individuals will try to impose their way of life on others. Many Western women like to use the word "submissive" when judging an Asian lady's role in a Western marriage. Nothing is further from the truth. These ladies are not forced to do anything they don't want to do but instead choose the role and values they prefer in a marriage. Yet, many Western women insist they know better even if the Asian lady is completely happy and has no desire to fit the mold of Western society.

Unfortunately, there are cases were Western men have abused an Asian lady, however, they are rare. All it takes is a few unfortunate instances for Western women to label all East-West marriages as submissive for their own political needs. Yet, in a country like the U.S.A., the rate of divorce and abuse between Western couples are higher and rising. Why don't Western women carry the same stigma as being submissive when a man abuses her, especially when the rate of abuse and divorce are higher among Western couples?

Instead of politicizing everything, why not ask the couple if they are happy. As long as they are not harming others, why should someone from another country try to impose their way of life. Yet, Western women in a country where abuse and divorce are rampant, continue to assume their way is better and will impose their way of life without even asking what the couple wants. There is no shortage of hypocrisy from Western women as they tell everyone their way is better while statistics prove differently.

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